A good day again. I'm so thankful for the changes that are occurring and the changes yet to come. I'm really working on me, intensely. I have come to value the tenet of DB'ing, which is, fix yourself first and the relationship will follow.

I don't know where she is regarding our R. I haven't asked and I won't. I know where I am. I love her unconditionally. I'm committed to keeping our family together.

Someone once said to me, "what would you tell your S14 if he asked you what he should do in the same circumstances?" I told them what I would say, but then I had to think the opposite is true as well, what would my son say to me?

I know he would say, stay and work it out. I know my children do not want to be without either one of us. I have to do my part. If I am the man I am supposed to be, I will be a great father and husband.

By faith, in faith, through faith. No other way has worked for me previously.