She was deep into the part about me having the conversation with her about finances and splitting things and all that crap. She mentioned that I asked her if she had a time line, a D date or something. I told her I thought that was only fair to ask, wouldn't anyone want to know that? She did say today, I don't have a time but I do know that the next time you engage in any of the suspicious stuff, ie; questioning, badgering, snooping, etc., will be the last time.
I took that to mean, she won't go further at this point in pursuing the D if I don't cross that line. Which is a positive as I have no intention on going there ever again. I didn't tell her but I was thinking, that behavior was hard on me as well for a variety of reasons.
What do you guys think about the, 'next time it happens will be the last time' statement? That's got to be more hope-full than if she actually had a date in mind.
