Tyler, I think it's great how you were able to not inflict any further harm on the R. It was better for you to vent online.
The advice about being an anchor in the storm is sound. Accept the storm--don't be in a hurry to be rewarded for your efforts. Get your reinforcement from others and yourself, and your faith.
She has a right to be angry and mistrustful. You have to accept the consequences for any harm or neglect you've caused over the years.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
