Just got off the phone with W. She started some R talk type stuff. Then she said she can't stand when I call because she knows it is going there?!
I called to say hi to my kiddies. She answered, she started in on the R talk..., but its my fault? I finally told her, look I tried to change the topic to things we need to do around the house and other things, 3 times I did this and you kept coming back to just because we ML yesterday doesn't mean anything is different.
I have yet to try the LRT. Should I, even though there is no physical seperation? Will it be effective if we are in the same house? Has anyone else done this with success? What are the pitfalls, landmines and what-not that I should look out for? That is, if I should even do it at this point. In DR, Michele recommends it if your spouse has said they want a D, I'm already there. She hasn't filed or anything to my knowledge, but she has talked about it, said that is how she feels, she hasn't changed, and the last thing she said to me today was, "if, and that's only if, things are to change I can't have these conversations any more". All I could think at that point was, I haven't started any R talk in weeks, I let her talk, answer her questions and such, but I definitely don't need to hear someone tell me how much I'm not wanted any longer, so why would I want to start that conversation.
I think at this point my only option might be the LRT, just to give it COMPLETE space.
