Tyler,
Scary words! Her mistrust has been a theme, for as long as I've been reading your thread. Your goal at this time is not to make things worse. You want to be able to look back and see that you did no further harm to the relationship.

You're going to have to go along for the R ride. The crisis will end, and your R will be in different place. You will need to accept the crisis, and the next phase of your R. If you fight it, you will delay the healing and progress.

Concerned_Listener

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching