Tyler, Does she say these things because it is true? Were you untrustworthy in the past?
Counter her statements afterwards in your own mind. You don't have to accept what she says at face value. Debating her serves no purpose at this time.
You have a R to work on at this time--be grateful for that. If you continue to make and maintain positive changes for yourself, it will have a positive impact on the relationship, and her anger will dissolve.
Concerned_Listener
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
