Tyler,
How does the "you haven't changed" conversation start? Is there something you say or do to trigger it?

You're right. It can be difficult to listen and validate when what is being said is unpleasant to listen to. Keep practicing!

Concerned_Listener

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching