Welcome to piecing, do read other threads here which will help you lots, you are in the right board.
Piecing is hard, sometimes you step back 2 steps for every step forwards, sometimes it seems hopeless and you might even think itis a mistake. Don't despair nor loose hope, you both need to learn to be friends again, it does take time. I think dates are excellent for you two, as when DB's when she was away, dont' bring up R talk, she's prob still figuring herself out. My H had major personality conflicts, and until he was able to deal w/his own issues there wasnt' much for me, so it was very hard for me at the beginning but slowly, month by month we got closer.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
