Wow, talk about someone taking no responsibility for his actions. It's all your fault, what a crock! His first responsibility is to be sensitive to his W, that's you. He has had an A with this woman and is now giving her a Xmas gift because "she meant something to him". Oh my God! What about you? What do you mean to him? That is either really twisted logic or someone cruising to see if something is still there between them. The fact that he turns it on you and declares you have now ruined the "happiness" of giving the gift is nuts!!! Boo hoo for him. He's pushing your buttons knowing you will feel some sense of guilt, DON"T. He'll hit you with the "don't you trust me" thing next. I think you are completely in the right to be upset and he should have the decency to respect your feelings and understand how this could/will affect your M. What a guy. Yes, you still have issues to work out in this M. Sorry you have to deal with this especially at this time of year.
