Quote: Should I just let him do these things and accept the fact that this is what I deserve after what I have done?
No one deserves this but in the same sense you can not control him or what he is going to do so you really have no choice.
Quote: Did I overreact?
Absolutly. The over reaction was from you letting your emotions get the best of you. You did not over react by getting upset. That is natural. However, You should have not let the H know that it affected you that much. You should have had a calm conversation about it and maybe simply said that it bothers you that he bought her a gift and left it at that. You both got too defensive.
Quote: Why do I feel guilty because he bought her a gift?
Not sure what you mean here. "YOU FEEL GUILTY?"
Quote: Am I being a B%&$^ because I got angry at this?
Nope. Anger would be a natural reaction for anyone in your shoes. However you need to learn how to control your anger so that you do not put yourself in that sitch again.
Later, O
Ben 32 STBXW 29 3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months) Status: Fighting for the Kids.
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