Hello, thanks so much for all the support. I agree. How could I possibly forgive him if he keeps trying to blame me for part of the affair. It took a long time for him to admit the PA although he admitted the EA right away. I just don't think we can reconcile. Truly, I feel like he would be with the OW if she had not dumped him. I am second choice. The funny thing was that he actually asked me in August, when I was suspicious but did not have proof, if he could go camping with our kids and her and her kids. She would stay in a motel and he would stay in a camp trailor. Can you believe that he thought this was acceptable?? Do people just get confident that the 'friends' excuse will really work? How outrageous!!
