Quote: Also, he still is not taking full responsibility for the affair. He says that he made mistakes but that I bear some responsibility for the reasons he had the affair.
that is a big red flag. I do believe an A is a symptom arising from bigger turmoils in an A, but there is just no way he should have the nerve to say "you made me do it."
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.