It was ironic but the OW was going to help H financially too. It would have been an easy transition for my H until the OW ended it. I guess an A and switching Ws was much easier then getting a job and working a marriage. I allowed things to happen by enabling him quite a bit but now truly want a partner not a dependent. Fortunately, he is in counseling and hopefully will become a confident, self-sufficent person on his own.
