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There is no more yelling at one another, or screaming.
We have been talking and listening to one another.

I never want to go backwards, or end up in a riproaring fight with him over something petty.

There is no joy or satisfaction over tearing someone down and making them feel like s**t.

I have learned so much from the DBing principals and from my friends here on this BB.





Gosh, I totally hear you on this. It is wonderful to not have those horrid screaming matches anymore. I feel the exact same way, I will never go back to that, ever again.

Thank you for reflecting on that. ((HUGS))

I need to catch up on everything with you...so he is coming home in Feb?? And you have V-Day all set up already? I am so excited for you!!!!


Me: 38
H: 39
DS: 6
DD: 3
Married 7 1/2 years - together for 10
Bomb - 12/17/05
MOW Bomb - 12/25/05
Separated and H adamantly wanted a D: 1/16/06
H moved back: 8/06