There is no more yelling at one another, or screaming. We have been talking and listening to one another.
I never want to go backwards, or end up in a riproaring fight with him over something petty.
There is no joy or satisfaction over tearing someone down and making them feel like s**t.
I have learned so much from the DBing principals and from my friends here on this BB.
Gosh, I totally hear you on this. It is wonderful to not have those horrid screaming matches anymore. I feel the exact same way, I will never go back to that, ever again.
Thank you for reflecting on that. ((HUGS))
I need to catch up on everything with you...so he is coming home in Feb?? And you have V-Day all set up already? I am so excited for you!!!!
Me: 38 H: 39 DS: 6 DD: 3 Married 7 1/2 years - together for 10 Bomb - 12/17/05 MOW Bomb - 12/25/05 Separated and H adamantly wanted a D: 1/16/06 H moved back: 8/06