BND I know exactly how you feel. When I arrived home from work about two hours ago I found the severe winds we are experiencing had blown open my garage door. thankfuly I was home 3 hours earlier than usual so luckily nobody had walked in and taken any of our possessions for themselves.

When I got into the house and looked out of my kitchen window I realised that half the fence panels surrounding my garden have also been blown over. This is nothing new. The same panels always blow out when we have such severe weather BUT normally I have H to fix them. Yes I feel very inadequate and even more alone than I normally do.

The plus side for you is that you know your 'trial' is coming to an end. I'm still going through all that you have survived. It can only be a matter of days now before your H is safely back in your home. So forget for a while about that fuel pump and start thinking sexy lingerie and all the fun that goes with it!


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15