Snodderly you don't sound too encouraging. I get the feeling like you are basically telling me to get ready for the ride of my life and that he may walk away again.
The true healing and rebuilding will not begin until he is back under your roof.
I agree. When your H is 3000 miles away, the "normal" couple chores are still not really in the picture. True piecing will start when H moves back into your home. Both of you will have to start re-living as a couple and as a family. I mean, it IS different when H is visiting for a few days VS. living full-time with you/kids. The pressures of "realities" will show itself once you start living together again. Each day is a challenge to be HAPPY, to keep DBING and to keep your mouth ZIPPED up!!
