Thank God for tenacity...I knew my stubborness would one day pay off See...God really can use some things for good. Thank you again for letting me have a place to vent and for sounding off.
Snodderly I have always appreciated your honesty, and your patience with me. I still have moments when I wonder if all of this is really worth it.
So much time has been wasted on MLCBS.
I wonder sometimes IF the situation were reversed would he have waited this many years for me to come home.
My Beloved called me a couple of times to check in on me.
I spent most of the day in bed today with bad cramps and a migraine. Yep I LOVE being a woman.
He also told me that he felt my words to him in my email were beautifully written and he thanked me. So now I will back off in the "touchy feely" department for a while.
Last night while we were on the phone he got a "beep" from his new boss and they spent 2 1/2 hours going over the business plan and making arrangements.
He called me back and was very excited and filled me in on all of the details.
So things are still moving forwards and he is excited about coming home and setting up his home office. I am excited that I will be able to work part time and get out of the house for a few days a week.
The best part is that I get to keep the money I earn for niceties!! It has been so long since I have had any financial freedom. And...my H will be taking over the bills and finances. (I will sort of oversee this...shhhh!!)
We have been working out a budget and as he will no longer have to support 2 households things will be much better for all of us again. We need to rebuild our savings and pay off the credit cards.
My MIL owes us so much money and I am sure we will never see a dime of that money, somewhere to the tune of $45K. I sure hope she has no high hopes of me taking care of her in her old age!!
I heard from her yesterday, and it wasn't a very nice conversation, but I did tell her that from now on she can refer all questions to her Son and leave me alone.
She still has not been told of my Husband's plan to come home. She is going to be mortified! Oh to be a fly on the wall and see the womans face when she hears the news Yes I am still a wicked woman
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.