BND,
Breathe in, breathe out. One moment at a time, being the best you that you can be. The rest will take care of itself.
You are OK.
Holly

Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.