b, Keep the expectations at zero! Your h is still in mlc and the lingo is still in his emails. This part of the journey is the most frustrating part of the entire crisis. He's showing signs of waking up and coming home and you are getting impatient. It's going to take at least another 12-18 months after he's home for him to fully recover.
Learn to step back and realize that he's going to continue to talk off the wall and test you until he's completely settled once again.
If you push too hard, he will walk the other way. Listen, take in what you need and do not get offended or hurt by anything he says at this time. He's inching his way over the finish line.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
