When I first read that letter, it really hurt me to hear him mention "abuse" and your "punitive attitude"; it seems like he will not let that go. OTOH, as Alison says, there are some things that cannot be dressed up. That is how he felt/feels, and he acknowledges that nothing you do gives him that reaction anymore. I do, however, think there is till some blaming going on there, as he doesn't seem to take much, if any, responsibility. Is this different when he speaks to you? How do you feel about that? If he really does believe that all this was not his fault at all, can you reconcile?
Love, Nicola
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