One step at a time.........

[cat03]

There is no more yelling at one another, or screaming.
We have been talking and listening to one another.

I never want to go backwards, or end up in a riproaring fight with him over something petty.

There is no joy or satisfaction over tearing someone down and making them feel like s**t.

I have learned so much from the DBing principals and from my friends here on this BB.

I couldn't have said it better. It is beyond me what the heck I was thinking and what got out of getting the best out of my H in an argument, in the fact that I was able to come up w/a good jab. It horrifies me to think that I felt some satisfaction at having "one up " on him.

It has been a huge wake call, DBing, I also thank all my good friends here