BND As ever your post has come at a crucial time for me. I need to keep seeing how things have changed so drastically for you to able to keep a focus on my own sitch. Right now I can only hope and pray that I will be as fortunate as you. My own patience and strength is at an all time low today. Need to rediscover it before the big day itself so that I don't spoil things for the kids.
God bless
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15