So,let me get this straight, she wants him there knowing you all can't go? is that right?? Has she seen him last year? can't you suggest your H sees her every other Christmas? what a viper!!! Ah! hispanic mothers, they do expect the kids to stick around forever (I know it, mine is like that :P )
Ask your H to talk to the kids, have him explain to them that he has to go see his "mami".
Well, i DO hope you have a merry Christmas, if H isn't going to be around, do something else for a change, get together w/other friends family, dang it, I order you to have a merry Christmas !!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.