Matilda,
You said in a post that you would like to be able to stay interested in your H's activities, without checking on him. This sounds like you're ready to "Do Something Different." Can you identify a step you can take that would move you closer to achieving that goal?

This is a tough pattern for you to break. You will have to do it one step at a time. Don't be upset with yourself that you fall back into the old pattern. Work on identifying, practicing, and rewarding yourself for small improvements.

I think you're ready to try!

Concerned_Listener

Last edited by Concerned_Listener; 01/24/07 06:11 PM.
CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching