Hello Matilda - It's great that you feel comfortable enough to give H the space he needs. How is your daughter these days?
The first day back my H was very sweet and caring and a little worried about whether or not I really wanted him back. Since then--no effort on H's part to make me feel secure in our R.
When H was expressing his concerns how did you respond? Perhaps you had allayed his fears so well that he does not want to bring up painful memories anymore? And if H was now to make an effort to make you feel more secure in your R, what would that look like? The more specific your requests the more likely H can fulfil them.
