Quote: Why not have a little brainstorm and just spend 10 minutes writing down every thing you ever wanted to do - however crazy - and see where that takes you?
Good idea! I have put my desires on the back burner (H, D16, work, have always come first) for so long that I really have to think hard about what would make me happy. I need to be happy with me! I know I shouldn't expect my H to make me happy. That may be the key to building back the trust and happiness in our M. I told my H that I wanted him to treat me better than he treats his friends. He doesn't get it at all. So, I will work on giving him reason to seek me out--I need to become an interesting, fun person to be with.
I hope 2007 will be the year I grow and become content with myself. I'll wish this for you, too, if it applies.