My H is also not IN love yet, he hasn't said it and we've done lots of progress and he likes being w/me, but he never tells me ILY after I sait it to him.
In an article I read men tend to downplay the hurt of the A, so I can fully understand that your H is baffled that it bothers you that he is having a FF. My H actually asked me "are you still thinking about that? (A)" Sooooooooo, if you feel he is spending too much time w/him try to engage him in activities w/you, so that you guys spend more time together. Over all, do try your best to be confident, confidence is appealing.
It would bother me too, does he see her/talk to her often during the week?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
