My H didn't call on Christmas morning to wish me or d7 a Merry Christmas and even when he picked up d7 later on Christmas Day, I got no eye contact and he stayed out on the porch instead of coming in the house. ( he always comes in when he picks her up) Just the night before I was at SIL's and H was there too. He ignored me the entire night. I tried not to let it bother me, just talked to everyone else.
Do you really think the way my H acted meant that he still cares or is it just his guilt??? To me if he was completely over me then he would have no problem wishing me a "Merry christmas" or looking me in the eye when I talk to him.
Sorry for the Hyjack--- I know how you feel when you say that your H is showing no signs of caring anymore. It hurts. I agree with everyone here about going dark for awhile. Let him feel what is like to lose you for awhile.
