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[bravagal]

Hope,

not sure if you still remember me from last year. I have been catching up on your sitch after a long time off the bb.

I understand how you must feel torn. Going dark lets in the possibility that they might NOT seek us out, right? or that they will feel rejected or that we are "mean".

I do agree though that our Hs need to know what it is like not to have us around. In the end isn't it better now when there is still some possibility of creating a new R in the future rather than in a year or whenever when we have long ago completely moved on with no interest in turning back?

Anyway, going dark is not as final as an ultimatum and you can always stop if you decide too. Sounds though like REALLY going dark would indeed be a 180 for you (as it would to me).

You are so strong and kind. I am so impressed to see you still following what you feel in your gut and beleive in ... that takes courage!

Have a wonderful Holiday!

brava