Hope,

I know it is hard to go dark on him, especially since he calls for advice, or for you to listen to him. You have been so patient and kind to him through this but maybe he needs to see that you may not always be there when he needs you.

I think that they lean on us for strength, (and counseling) and like to know that we are still around. But after time, they need to get a little taste of what their life would be if we were really gone from it.

Do what is best for you and what you feel comfortable with.

wed


wed2alien

Both 49, M 23 years
3 teens
April 2004- bomb, moved out
April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time
May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!!
Nov 2006-- Moved home
May 2008- Things still getting better