Hope, My vote is to go dark. This is a behavior, and will be notices much more than words. It is in the same vein as show him your changes, don't tell him about them. Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
