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Your H has no idea where he's going to end up. Are you allowing his indecision to keep you on an unknown path also? What does Hope want?


Piglet,

SO good to hear from you again. Thank you for sharing what you did. As to the portion of your post that I copied above, the answer is, yes, that's exactly what I'm doing.
The reason is this: I'd much prefer working on my marriage and being with H again over anyone else. I can say that there are a few people that seem to be interesting and nice individuals that have shown interest in me, and I might be inclined to move on, see what new path I might take with someone else if I knew for sure H and I were over for good. Not to suggest that I have to be with anyone; I don't. I'm just saying I don't want to begin something else if my marriage might be saved.
I just don't know what words to use to H if I take the stand. I suppose something along the lines of, "It's been a long time now; you know what happened and why, and you know I forgave you for it, but we have to decide if we are going to try to work things out now or not, because if we aren't I'm going to stop contact with you, only in emergencies, and move on. I don't want to keep waiting for something that's never going to happen."
The thing is to not come off angry and bitter, which I am not, but self-assured and serious.