easy to say you're getting screwed but the property division isn't outrageous. What's unfair is why your M is ending, IF it is. See the difference? You own lots of why the M was falling apart, but your W owns giving up on it. Maybe she'll open her eyes and maybe won't. But there's lots to talk about.
Not much time right now for me, but will post more later. First, lose your anger at your wife. I know, easier said than done.But don't show it to her no matter what. It will not help ANY chance of a reconciliation AND it hurts your R with her and that matters b/c you have kids together AND it hurts your kids and that is the main thing now; PROTECT THEIR HEARTS....please don't let the anger win out over the love for them.
ALso, what's with assuming SHE"ll get 50% custody? I'd be SHOCKED if she gets ANY unsupervised visits....IF what you said about the OM using drugs is true and at all provable (Not beyond a reasonable doubt b/c this is NOT criminal court). IF you are saying something malicious, drop it. If you have proof, that's huge.
I'll post more later. But you need to stop fueling the negative images your W is using to justify leaving, and instead COUNTER those images with a calm man who is GAL and is a very loving father, funny happy man....IOW, Be a Man Only A Fool Would Leave....she WILL have 2nd thoughts. Impossible not to, unless she was always unhappy and no one is always unhappy, unless they are insane. And then all you can do is GAL.
more later. J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
