11th hour Help!!!

[onlylove]

I guess it’s time for an update. I have asked my WAW to move out. She continues to go out at night come home 1:00 AM and expects me to watch the kids while she goes over to the OM home. I told her that this is disrespectful to me and the kids and she needs to leave.

We went to see an attorney yesterday to see if he would be right for us to use. The news was not good. It looks like what I will have to give her means I cannot save my home. Because we live in California she will get a large portion of my income. I will be likely to find a whole in the wall apartment. This really sucks, she goes out and has an affair but I get SCREWED.

She say’s she will find a room to rent until the divorce is final. The kids will stay with me. I’m asking for costadiy of the kids because I do not want them exposed to the new life style that she will be living. Her OM is 56 and she just turned 40. He is a cross dresser and uses drugs and alcohol.

I just need her out of the house. Evey time she comes home from his house I get a picture in my mind of him and her in bed together and it really hurts. I’m a man of faith and believe divorce is wrong. She is hurting the kids and me and all she cares about is her.

I’m hoping that as soon as she is not having her cake and eating it too she will realize what she is doing and what the damage is to her, me and the kids.

I pray for all the broken families and that god will heal them.