what is up with you guys? Hope all is well. Had a good holiday here and it continues until the 7th when H leaves to go back. For now, that is okay. Just glad to have some family time together and then, to build on it....and know that I really am okay with whatever happens. Don't get me wrong, I do love H and would like us to stay M and I know he does want that....but if I can't be #1 in his life, as in our M, then I'm okay with moving on.....no more wondering where I stand and no more taking his word for it, if you know what I mean.
I've thought of your questions about how to show your W(s) how you are NOW and what has changed in you...but I need to know the status today of what's going on in your M's.....
last but not least, I don't know if I told you that 2 M's in my family ended up divorced, only to remarry later....so it DOES happen....nothing is hopeless guys...
keep in touch, j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
