Wonderful evening, but I could tell that the W. was getting angry. The family had a Christmas outing. Great time! The kids asked W. what they were doing for the New Year. She said you are going to be with dad. I told her that I already made plans. She did not blow up, but I could tell that the pot was getting hot and about to boil. I did not tell her what I was doing (a religious retreat). I have no plans to call her, I suspect she is going to blow up.
She wants a girls night out to celebrate her new life that will start in the new year. Sorry, I want to take time to reflect and pray for the family that is suffering due to her selfish behavior. My plan is to only tell her if she asks and mearly tell her I am going on a retreat. She just has to deal with it. If she does line up a baby sitter and parties I want it in the back of her head that I am turning to our faith.
