Thanks for the support. It’s funny I asked my W if she should maybe get a check up for menopause because I noticed she is using a menopause cream on her tummy. She got offended and told me to mind my own business. I should learn I can’t talk about my concerns for her. I know that women our in this sitch just like men. If she goes through with filing for D I’m concerned for her because the kids my not want to live with her. My D keeps saying she is tired of mom always being angry.
Thanks for the advice about the book 5 love languages. I have received this advice from many. I will pick up a copy soon. It’s so hard, my W is asleep in the guest room and all I want to do is crawl into bed with her and just hold her. I still don’t understand why she won’t give our M a second chance.
Will its late and I have a busy day tomorrow. I’m decorating the Christmas tree with my son. The W hates Christmas so she leaves it up to me, all the decorating, most of the shopping. After that I’m taking my son to the Lakers game. One thing that’s been good is I have open my eyes to the fact that I was to busy with my job and not paying enough time with the W and the kids. Since the W wants nothing to do with me I’m reconnecting with the kids. My D turned 16 today and asked me to kick W out of the house so she would not spoil her birthday, pretty sad.
Me: 46
W: 40
S: 8
D: 16
Married: 18 years
Bomb dropped: 11/30/06
W moved out: ?
