so sorry you are here. But, as you read these situations, you'll see that women are in the same boat as you, probably more often. So what, right? I just want you to know you are in THE right place. Since I've been Dbing, I've heard a lot about a book called "The Five Love Languages" and finally started reading it. You may want to read it as well, since you seem to have no idea where this came from. I'm not doubting you, just making a suggestion.
I'm glad you are standing up for your M. DBing can work but not always. What I DO know is that all the other things I tried were totally UNsuccessful and DBing has created SOME changes...I am moving over to the "piecing together" side of things, and have been DBing over a year. Just so you have some time reference.
Good luck, it is NOT hopeless. As a mother, there is no way I can stay UNmoved when I see my H with my kids...playing and talking, and the love they have for them. It is soooo important that you spend as much time and give as much love to them as possible. For so many reasons, including the M. It's almost like emotional foreplay...And it is so important for your sons anyhow. Don't let them think that all women do this, or that she doesn't love them.. She may be pre-menopausal, and that is NO small thing for some women....so remember "in sickness and in health" and IF you can ask her, see if she'll get a physical exam....if not, you tried. Good luck, you are in the right place. And btw, I am finding the 5 Love Languages really interesting and useful. Wish I had read it 10 years ago. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
