Will it looks like we are all in the same boat. My W of 18 years told me 5 weeks ago that "We are getting a D" I'm working on LRT and "Act as if". She moved into the spare bedroom a few months ago, I did not see the sign. She started an EA and PA with an OM.

She has been and emotional wreck since she told me. She is dead set on the D. She wants to stay in the house until the D is done in 6 or more months, but it's hard on the kids because she is very unpleasant to live with.

I'm doing my best to save our M. This is going to be the hardest thing I have done in my 46 years, but our kids deserve nothing but my best. God bless you and all the Men who stand for there M and don't give in. We all have to deal with a WAW, who is not rational while going through this time. My wife turned 40. She is going through a MLC. We started dating when she was 20 and she never lived on her own and she keeps reminding me about that fact.

So stick with your morals, keeping reading Divorce Remedy, keep coming to this board. We are good people who deserve all that life has to offer. I have never used drugs or alcohol, never hit my W or even come close. She cannot think of any reason to leave but "Don’t love you anymore" pretty poor excuse.

God Bless!! Keep the faith.


Me: 46 W: 40 S: 8 D: 16 Married: 18 years Bomb dropped: 11/30/06 W moved out: ?