Remember - H is in teenage it's all about him mode. You need to set your boundaries, but you need to make them stick. H will try everyway possible to get around them.
If you feel you have had enough - file the D, but do it for you. If you are doing it for H or hopes that it will wake him up - don't.
Stop - think about it for 72 hours, if you still think you need to for you - and it is what you want - then do it. Most people say when the head and the heart do not agree - wait.
A dear friend used to tell me - "Just don't do anything that can't be undone. Until you are sure that, that is what you want"
This has been a turning point to a better M. In 25 years will either of us will remember much about this time? Because in 50 years neither of us will remember much of anything.
