I feel like I should amend my previous post since it might make me seem like I've gone nucking futs in the other direction-LOL. I don't actually want to suggest to my H that he have sex with other women. It's just that I'm happy that the thought of such a thing doesn't effect me in the way that it used to. I can visualize my H having sex with another woman and not experience some horrible angry jealous possessive self and other loathing thoughts.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
