Quote: I think it would be easy to be married to you just like it would be easy to be married to IHJ's Type 3 H. All I would have to do is communicate "We are the very best couple ever so we very much deserve lots and lots of sex and fun!"
Wrong! Your relationship with my H would fail for the same reason as mine has and for the same reason as yours with your H has...our H's needed too much propping up ininitally, and you and I tried to help them too much in their manhood, for various reasons, which set off all kinds of weird dynamics.
That's why I still stick by my previous post to you that things may improve in your marriage once the financial/emotional stress of raising the kids is out of the picture.
