I agree with LP. I think you're a 3. I think your H is a martyred 2. I think it would be easy to be married to you just like it would be easy to be married to IHJ's Type 3 H. All I would have to do is communicate "We are the very best couple ever so we very much deserve lots and lots of sex and fun!"
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
