New All Time Low

[MJontheMend]

I do sympathize the fact that you seem to be required to spend a great deal of time on your H's needs while yours remain largely unmet.

Well, the fact of the matter is I'm not "required" to do anything. I can and will kick his azz to the curb when and if I feel I "need" or "want" to.

Sounds like you can fairly well predict your H's moods/availability for sex based on what you know of his personality and behaviors - does that make it harder or easier for you?

Easier in the sense that I can avoid wasted effort. Harder in the sense that I must give up my overly optimistic delusion that my H will ever be Steady Eddie the Happy Husband and Stud.