Things are so cr*p in my situation right now that I almost didn't want to post here. The problem with my marriage has definitely transcended the sexual. It has become clear to me that due to his excessive dependency issues my H doesn't really WANT a lover or a wife, he NEEDS a keeper or a really, really good therapist. Unfortunately, it has become abundantly clear to me that he is willing to do just about anything to keep me in that role. Right now I want to bail so bad I can taste it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver