They don't ALL return. I've been here for 5 years. My friend's H's have not returned. My H did not return. (Well, once for a week - 5 years ago today to be exact - but he left again (yep, right at Christmas). You cannot count on it. That is not to say you can't discount it either but I hate to see promises made here when there are no guarantees.
But yes, Deb - it is NOT about you. It is all about HIM. And it is most common for them to leave everyone.
My ex has contact with his siblings (his parents are gone). He was never close with any of them so I doubt he is closer now. He has no contact with ANY of our former friends. He and OW have made new friends through work and neighbours.
I hate being a wet blanket but I hate seeing MLC so clearly defined with a start and an end. The books might say they all will return. Many of the posters may say it too. But if you check out the histories here - you will find that I am right. MOST do not return.
OK, get your weapons out - I expect to be bashed for telling the truth!
