Hi Deb. My H doesn't contact anyone either, well except me but we have small kids at home. He used to call his folks every day and his brother at least 4-5 times a week. So far hasn't called his parents but a handful of times and only then because his mom calls him asking if he is still alive.

He hasn't told anyone that he moved out. Very few people know from me and the kids. The people that do know he avoids like the plauge.

My thought is the same as yours...If this was just about our R why in the world would he cut everyone out. Makes no sense.

Hope you have a good day.
Shades