Wow...what feedback...I couldn't agree more with all of you.
Ian, you never lost your man card...you'll always have it!!
DavidM, yes, I was committed, but, I never did want to be just a housewife. I see my friends, they let themselves go, the kids are more important than their H's...I never wanted it to be that way...I was one that kept postponing having kids; my H always said this year...but I kept stalling that.
OSU, Karla didn't seek the OM b/c you set her free...it was b/c of the M...you know that.
Whatisis, that was very thought povoking...I believe it.
Running, you go girl, a woman that sees my point. Good for you...I knew there was something special about you. I couldn't do Botox though, I think I'll just let nature take its' time. If a wife stays home with or without kids, it doesn't give her the right to roll up into a ball. By keeping up and participating in life, looking good, keeping fit...you become part of 21st century.
In the morning, when I was married, I'd go into my bathroom for about an hour, shower, wash my hair, put on my make-up and then go into the bedroom and get dressed. Seven days a week...the make-up came off when I took another shower at the end of the day. Why look ugly when you should be at your best...
AT, my sister had her B-day yesterday, so it was family time...we went out to eat, etc. It was nice.
Well, there's nothing to update...I haven't heard from my X today...but he's busy at work...people rent cars from him this time of year for New Year's Eve parties...he really charges them an arm and a leg, but they are demo's, but the people renting them for a night or two don't care...