I think we seem to place our women up on a pedestal in the beginning only for us to slowly knock it down. We have built them up and then want to tear them down so that we can have control and not lose the one thing that makes us feel good about ourselves.
In retrospect, I know I put my wife up on this pedestal. I had a beautiful wife that boosted my ego. I slowly brought her down (not purposely) to be more on my level of self esteem so that she would stay with me. It is almost like emotional abuse only not outright.
We want control. We want to fix b/c it gives us a sense of control.
Not sure this made any sense....oh well
M-35 going on 15 D-8 S- 3 yrs ex-CL(w)- 30
D over one year
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be. Douglas Adams "Just Be"
