Quote: why can't men let their wives do what they want...be who they are...why
Well 1210, you know me and my candor about items like this, no fear in telling the truth, I've alredy blown my man card anyway right
The truth of the matter is that men, as stupid as it is, look at their W's as a posession that they control. Like an autographed baseball card. The more it is handled or shown about the more damage the card recieves. It loses it's value and the beauty that you see in it. I know that my mistak was thinking that my W should only want to do things I wanted to, only go places that were acceptable to me. I wanted her life to be mine and match my thoughts of how it should be. I did not allow her to be herself and honor herself in exploring what makes her happy.
This is a huge mistake that we make because we don't neccesarily always believe that we are good enough for our wives. We feel like we don't deserve the hapiness and the woman that they are. It's a huge lack of self confidence that we all contain, I believe genetically. I believe that at some point a man grows up and realizes just how selfich he has been and only then can he lead a truly shared marriage with his W and allow her to get what she deserves as well.
